I recently had dinner with a close friend. He shared that he was having a bit of trouble opening up on job interviews. This lack of We discussed things that employers were looking for. He was seeking a job in a highly stressful and traumatic industry. After some more discussion, he disclosed a personal tragedy. After letting the horrifying truth sink in, I started to see the connection between his tragedy and his choice of career options. I recommended that he share the story with potential employers. Understandably, he was very reluctant to share that info.
This is an unusual example of shamelessness. I told him the story of my best friend, who was kidnapped and murdered in high school. This isn't a story that I tell often, but sometimes, it helps to bring context to a situation. I recognize that this tragic event in my life is part of why I focus on empowerment and women's and children's issues. I want all people to be empowered, especially women and children. I don't want ANYONE to find themselves in a situation where they feel dependent and helpless. We all need other people, and we need to recognize the gifts and strengths in ourselves. From that, my marketing company and Shameless Self Promotion were born.
Tragic events shape our lives, but it's our choices that define our character. Whether conscious or unconscious, we all make choices that connect back to events -- positive and negative -- that have shaped our lives. If something momentous has occurred in your life, I encourage you to be shameless in your exploration of that event and how it has shaped your life. You can choose to embrace the learnings from that situation, or to ignore them. Either way, I hope that we all move forward with our lives and find meaning in our world through the choices we make AFTER the event has occurred.
Inaction is a choice. To be truly shameless is to choose to act consciously. Let it out, and see what comes your way. Nothing can take away the tragic loss of a loved one, a traumatic event, or any combination of difficult times. But you can honor the memory of the victim in the choices you make later in life, even if the victim is you.
Raise your hand if you've ever been afraid to, well, raise your hand!
Whether you're a job seeker, business owner, or a member of a large organization, Shameless You! has resources to help take the shame out of your game. We equip you with the tools you need to put your best foot forward and approach your next interview, sales pitch, or presentation with confidence!
Did you know that public speaking tops death as the number one fear by the average person?
If you've ever been mortified at the thought of giving a speech, you probably know what we're talking about. That knot that tightens in your stomach as the rest of you goes numb and breaks into a panicky sweat. The only thing that you can think about is getting out of the speech as fast as possible! Well, sometimes, we cannot flee from presentations. It could cost us our livelihoods and the health of our businesses.
So what can you do to stamp out your fears?
Consider Shameless You! Our own shy-turned-shameless guru, Tracy A. Corley, will equip you with the tools you need to put your best foot forward and brag about yourself or your business without sounding like a walking sales pitch.
Are you ready to learn more about being truly shameless in your every day life? If so, choose your path from the options below. Together, we will align your personal strategy with everyday actions through clear, simple techniques that build confidence and speak integrity.
Shameless Living with Confidence and Integrity for Individuals
Bringing Shamelessness to Your Organization
Shameless Support and Certification for Coaches
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
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